Why do some women wear their hair for the man?

I hate when women say ';I don't wear my hair short because my man won't like it';. If my man told me he would leave me just because I cut my hair I wouldn't want him. That tells me than he is only into the physical and doesn't care about the inside. That's not real love. Why is it that women associate long hair with femininity? Your hair length doesn't make you more or less of a women. I hate when I watch TV and see women cry when they get their hair cut! It's just hair! Get over it!Why do some women wear their hair for the man?
I would totally tell a guy to hit the road if he said he would leave me over some hair. Mine always says he doesn't care what I do with it and he doesn't care what I wear. I put these highlights in my hair once and I asked if he liked them, he didn't say anything so I said ';you don't like it do you'; and he was like no not at all, so I dyed over them. I didn't like them that much and he was going to be the one to have to look at me so I figured I should just dye it back. If I REALLY wanted something though, I wouldn't care if he liked it or not, he could deal with it. Why do some women wear their hair for the man?
What's wrong with a man expressing his preferences and a woman taking them into consideration to please her partner? Or vice versa?





A woman saying she wears her hair in a way that pleases her partner doesn't mean her partner threatened to leave her if she didn't do so.





Healthy long hair is a wonderful feminine feature that is pleasing to look at and begs to be touched. It shows a long-term commitment to that look; where short hair can be an impulse decision. And hair is the only major physical feature over which people have full (non-surgical) control, so it can say a lot about a person.






I have really short hair, and my ex LOVED it. But I'd never grow my hair out just because a guy wanted me to.





He said, ';your hair is perfect pulling-hair.'; And, oh god, it was. =)





I think women, personally, look a lot better with short hair. Long hair is just..it's associated with barbie dolls. Women have been playing with barbies since the beginning of time, and every barbie (most of them) has long, blonde or brown hair.





Thus the reason we associate long hair with femininity.





Hope this theory helps. =)